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Bijou Speaks: Deliberate Strokes

Bijou Speaks: Deliberate Strokes

 In 2014, we were thrilled to announce a new member of the Zentangle Community. It was a celebratory time when Bijou the snail slowly and lovingly glided his way into our hearts and lives. We immediately fell in love with the unique character Bijou shared with us, and most of all we all, we embraced the stories and messages Bijou has told us that align with the Zentangle Method. 
As we move along on this tangled journey we have learned, when Bijou speaks, we listen.

In this Blog series we explore some of our favorite thoughts, quotes, stories and Bijou-isms. Enjoy!


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Julie writes...

Deliberate Strokes – a bijouism that may not roll of the tongue as easily as savor or inspire, but one that embodies so much of the Zentangle philosophy. One that I have chosen to embrace in this new year.

I have always had mixed feelings about New Year’s Resolutions. On one hand, this time of year invites moments of reflection and assessment and goal setting. On the other hand, it is full of promises to do less of this or more of that, sometimes setting unrealistic expectations for ourselves. Personally, I like to make one or two small, achievable goals or intentions for the year. Sometimes they are silly and sometimes they are things I may already do but want to focus on more.

This year, I decided I wanted to tangle more. That shouldn’t be hard, right? Considering my job and all…

For a few days though, the resolution was not sitting right with me. It was too vague – what constituted more? Should I tangle every day? Twice a day? Twice a week? For how long? I realized through all of this deliberation that I did not want tangling to be a task on my To-Do list. I did not want to end up sitting down and rushing through a tile just so I could say that I tangled.

Then, my little friend Bijou whispered in my ear, “Deliberate Strokes.” I decided that I will tangle more… deliberately. Tangle with intention.

When we are more deliberate with our strokes, we are focused on the process of tangling and not the end result. We are focused on one stroke at a time and how it relates to the other tangles on our tiles.

I began a tile with the tangle mooka. Being very deliberate with each of my mooka’s, I made an effort not to plan how all my mooka’s would look together in the end, but on one mooka at a time. I worked through my tile with the same deliberation I began with and when it came time to shade, I focused on one line, one tangle a time.

With deliberate strokes, and all those other, wise words from Bijou seem to fall into place… savor, breathe, focus…

What kind of intention are you setting with your tangling this year? Tell us which Bijiousim you are focusing on this year and we will randomly pick a few winners to receive a Bijou Box!

Julie Willand

62 comments

  • Leave your worries behind really speaks to me. After two years of constant chaos, having fun on the journey was not part of my self-speak! So this year, I will leave my worries behind whenever I am tangling, and hopefully this will carry over into other parts of my life.

    Mary Kay Cass, C.Z.T. on

  • Breathe – I find myself whirling here and there trying to get things done. I want to stop more, relax, and just breathe. Let all the bustle drop away, take a deep breath and enjoy the moment.

    Holly C on

  • I have chosen Positive for my word of the year. Is it a Bijouism? I’m not sure but I have to believe our guy Bijou will approve.
    The last two years have been very trying for most of us. I know our life, goals, plans have all changed dramatically. I have found rather than looking foreword to the next adventure I am dreading the next challenge. I have been avoiding calls and letters from family. When I see my family is calling my heart sinks and I think, “what next?”
    One day my husband said, “You are so negative!” WHAT? I have never been negative! Enough!
    So every morning I have to think, “What a beautiful day!” As soon as I open my eyes. It’s pretty easy in South Carolina where the sun shines almost every day! I plan to do very little each day so I can finish successfully. AND I am trying new things that I’ve always wanted to do.
    So, I am positive that 2022 will be a positive year for us!

    Betsey Youngs on

  • Embellish. In everything I do … Adding a little something extra to th daily tasks of life. To leave a trail of magic everywhere I go.

    In my tangles I’ll add more love and detail. When I’m cooking, I’ll garnish. And when I’m with others I’ll compliment and thank more …

    Ann Baum on

  • I determined that this year I needed to tangle because I wanted to, not because I had to. There are so many groups and so many possible projects that I follow. It was hard to let some of them go, but I already feel the joy returning as I tangle for the love of it. I will always enjoy having prompts to follow, but I now can focus more on the few instead of feeling that I need to do more!

    Lynn Noga on

  • I have been following Bijouisms since the first time he appeared. I make my own tiny tile of a Bijou style and produce inspirational words for friends. My favorite is “enjoy the shade” ~Lynda Moore, CZT

    Lynda Moore on

  • The Bijou tile that says Trust seems apt for me this year. For many reasons. This is not a time that particularly inspires trust, but a time that needs it more than ever. And in relation to my tangling I need to trust myself, that what I am doing, how I am doing it, when I am doing it are all just as they should be. Trust the process, trust the materials, trust each and every stroke. And if any go wrong… there’s always rounding!

    Jem Miller on

  • What a great reminder – thank you Bijou and Julie!

    “Be present” is the Bijiouism I want to focus on this year. While I do try to tangle daily, I don’t always stop and really focus on the tile. I want to work on being more intentional about my tangling this year.

    Sarah W. CZT 36 on

  • It’s about the journey not the destination. Slow down, slow down your breath, enjoy the process.

    Ginger White CZT34 on

  • Way to go Julie! Let us know at the end of the year what difference this makes indoor tangling experience. We would love to hear from you. 🐌

    Kathy Y. on

  • Hi- This was my first introduction to Bijou. It was EXACTLY what I needed this morning! Might you be able to direct me to somewhere where I could find the steps to draw it/her/him? I am grateful for this practice and all you continue to do to keep it dynamic and grace filled!

    Kay J Naumann on

  • A great reminder…Delicate strokes….I find sometimes that I also ‘rush’ through my tangles and my strokes aren’t as nice as I know that I can do! Good advise Bijou!

    Dianne Riva Cambrin on

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