Julie writes...
Even though we know that there are “no mistakes” when it comes to the Zentangle Method, there are sometimes when we are just not happy with how things are going. One day I was sitting at my desk at work tangling when I was having one of those days. I started a tile and next thing I knew it was going in a direction that was not pleasing to my eye. I got frustrated with myself and tossed the tile in the trashcan next to my desk.
Molly happened to walk in the room at that moment and watched me throw the tile away. She walked over, picked the tile out of the waste bin and put it back on my desk, scolding me (in a loving way, of course) for doing such a thing!Since that day, I have not thrown away a tile that I am not happy with. But that just means instead of finding their demise in the trash can, they go to a box on my desk that I have affectionately named my “Tile Graveyard,” and it is full of half-finished tiles that I deemed unworthy of finishing.
Until now.
A few weeks ago, I was looking for a blank tile to tangle on and couldn’t find one (imagine that… I couldn’t find a blank Zentangle tile at ZHQ!), but I did have quite a few unfinished tiles in the “Tile Graveyard”. I started rifling through them a bit. Instead of a graveyard full of mistakes and mishaps, I found opportunities. I began working on some of those tiles again in an effort to resurrect them. Looking at them, I wondered, what about them I didn’t like before? Which stroke was the one that caused me to put my pen down? There were times that I picked up a tile to finish, only to realize that it was perfect just the way it was.
Sometimes all you need is to walk away from a tile (or a situation) that you are frustrated or unhappy with, take a deep breath, and return with fresh eyes and a new perspective to see the possibilities.
What you once thought was trash may in fact be treasure.
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Yes! I like that name too..I have a box for that purpose. Now I’m going to draw a cartoon of a gravestone with an angel on it, but instead of RIP (Rest In Peace) it will say RIP (Rethinking Im-Possibilities)…like taking a new look at something that you had given up on, or didn’t think could happen.
Karen Lloyd on
Love the “tile graveyard” name…. I just have “the pile”… Sometimes I will stick the ones I am not quite happy with on my mirror that is across the room from where I sit. After looking at it at various times for awhile, something always comes to me, as a way to finish it. I will admit that I have a couple that have ended up being test tiles for other things like what color will this tea make, or what color will this wine make, or what it I did that? They essentially become swatch tiles.
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Sue Leslie CZT on
Oh yes. I keep mine in a little basket. I call them Leftovers. Sometimes I revisit them years later and know exactly what they need. Sometimes I add something and am still not happy so they go back in the basket. Some still baffle me. And some I’ve sent on to other tanglers to see if they can ressurect them, and I’ve done the same for tiles of theirs. In our swap group (the Travelling Tangles Project) we call these tiles Be Bold tiles – because it asks us to Be Bold to send them out when we’d rather just hide them away!
Jem Miller on
I love that you call it a tile graveyard! I have my fair share of ghosts in the graveyard, and I too admit that a few have hit the trash can. So I now use the really bad ones and I practice new tangles or combinations of tangles or clean up a gel pen on the back, but they’re no longer wasted. Some come fully to life when I get a refreshed look at them. “Not so bad after all!” or “Wow. I created that?” or maybe “Was that one really destined for File 13?” Not anymore, they’re not! Thanks, Julie, for a great post!
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Shelley Bell on
This is a really good reminder. Thanks for putting this concept back on my “radar”, as I do find myself in this position from time to time.
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Lisa Anderson on
Thank you Julie for sharing a spot on blog!
Deborah Sargent on
Such perfect timing Julie. Yesterday I posted a tile from my ‘junk pile’. I started it last year some time and finished it yesterday. I think many of us have a bone pile :) and you are right. They look totally different on a second look. Thank you.
Jody Genovese on
Oh thanks Julie for sharing! It’s a great story. I hadn’t thought of that, but a Tile Graveyard is a great idea! This way, I will be able to return with fresh eyes at tiles that I didn’t really appreciate at first and they will be resurrected.
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Chris Clark on
Just like when I do a Sudoko, if I cannot finish in one go, I put it down and look at it later. Then I finish it. Zentangle is the same. I only do tiles when I have me tangles to put on them. Mostly I practice in a book. I can bring it anywhere and I am always ready
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When I pick up an unfinished tile to look for new possibilities, I start by giving it a quarter turn then another then another. Sometimes that’s all it takes for it to speak to me.
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Matt Wieczkowski (aka MattskiCZT) on
I have a box of tiles like that also. I like to think of these tiles as tiles that have yet to speak to me about what they need. When I go through the box there is always one or two that jump out at me and tell me what they need. I also add tiles I personally do not like but are finished to my display folders. It always surprises me when people say they really like those tiles. What may be awful to one is beautiful to others. Having said all that, Zentangle is about the process, not the end result. This is why I tangle.
Lianne on
Thank you for the share, I too have a stack of not happy with them today tiles . Many have been finished with success others become test tiles for new tangles or techniques. Well loved paper..
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