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I'm Late, I'm Late...for a Very Important Date.

I'm Late, I'm Late...for a Very Important Date.



Molly writes...

As a child, I loved the story, Alice in Wonderland. It was so curious and offered many oddities. There was the perfect amount of silliness and adventure. I loved that nothing seemed to make any sense in a very normal way, of course. I have always been drawn to whimsy and imagination.

As a teenager, I continued to be drawn to the story and its whimsical art. I became more curious about the symbolism within the story and studied it and enjoyed it in a new way. As a young adult, I even traveled to Oxford, England, to walk the streets where the story originated. It was so fascinating to learn that all the different characters and their interactions had a deeper story to tell.

Of the many lessons and wisdom I became personally connected to, the story of the white rabbit is one that has stuck with me. 

Alice in Wonderland is a coming-of-age tale. As she follows the white rabbit, it is reflective of her being led into the next stage of her life. She watches and follows so naively, still viewing life through the eyes of a child, but looking ahead to something different, chaotic, and curious. The rabbit and his watch represent her adulthood and our attachment to time. Alice is viewing the rabbit as he panics himself into a fury. She is curious about what he could be worried about. Alice is still viewing the world through a youthful lens, where time is simply something that just is. As children, we live free from the worry of time. As adults, we become attached to our scheduled lifestyles just the way the white rabbit is chained to his watch. We carry layers of anxiety about when we should do things and how long they should take. We are burdened by what is next, often losing sight of where we are, just like the rabbit, being so caught up in being late. We have the pressure of time coming at us from all directions. 

What does this have to do with your Zentangle practice, you ask?

When we deliver tangle lessons or challenges, I always hear whispers from tanglers, venting that they are behind, or late, or not caught up. But the truth is, there are no finish lines or first place winners in Zentangle. There is no stopwatch timing you or a deadline to submit. Our lessons and challenges are not timed, and we purposely deliver them in a way that each person can do them at any time of day and take as much time to complete them as needed. 

As we approach this year’s Twelve Days of Zentangle, I challenge all of you not to follow the white rabbit down his hole. I encourage you to break free from the chain and the pocket watch and tangle on your own time, at your own pace. The Twelve Days series is fun and a great way to inspire us and challenge us, but it should feel good to you.

We hope that the time you spend creating with Zentangle Method is time when you can let go of some of the pressures that surround you. We hope that your tangles can make you feel nurtured by the present, and the playful ink strokes that you put onto your tile can perhaps make you tap into something with the creative zest of a child. We encourage you to tangle when you can and for as long as it works in your world, given all that you have surrounding you in this moment. We want you to feel free from judging yourself and comparing yourself to others. Your Zentangle journey is unique to you. You are a beautiful being and a beautiful artist. The way you approach a lesson, or a tile, is in such a way that only you can do it. Trust the process and your place in it. If a lesson takes you an hour or a week, allow it to. If you don’t get to a lesson right away, then know that when you finally do, it will be the perfect time. Prioritize yourself and your practice, but don’t force it. Allow it to be as much as it can in the space that you have. And when you finally do get some time to tangle, embrace it, for as much or as little as it is. Tangle at your own pace and get lost in your own tangled world. 

We are very excited about the content we have for this Project Pack, but we also realize that we have packed a lot into the twelve days. So, we wanted you all to know that it is OK to take it all in at whatever pace you need to. Enjoy it… we sure did.

If you like reading about the white rabbit and Alice and Wonderland, I found these two articles that speak more in depth about this concept … careful though, you can go down a rabbit hole on this topic.

https://www.berrypatchfarms.net/white-rabbit-alice-in-wonderland-symbolism/

https://manasgodha.web.illinois.edu/2023/04/18/hopping-into-symbolism-decoding-the-white-rabbit-in-alice-in-wonderland/

Molly Hollibaugh

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  • I have loved tangling since I first saw it on you tube years ago. I’ve been so sick the last few years that not much has given me the energy to find the mind space. But, I would love to learn how to teach it properly and to share the joy and love I get from it in my newly rejuvenated drawing and craft space. I am loving the textured surfaces and nomading around.

    Lynn Hall on

  • Мила МОЛИ,

    чуден е светът на приключенията!
    Чуден е светът на детството!
    Чуден е светът на израстването!
    Чуден и е светът на зентенгъла!
    Много добра асоциация с приказния свят и пътуването на Алиса!
    Затова обожавам зентенгъла!
    Той ме води през вълшебен свят, в който потъвам и се наслаждавам на всеки щрих и форма!
    Пълен релакс и освобождаване!
    Стъпка по стъпка!
    И неусетно усещаш промяната!
    Ненатрапчиво, непринудено, неангажиращо….
    Израстване…
    И твоят духовен свят става по-богат!
    И ставаш по-уверен!
    И вярваш, че можеш!
    Благодаря за напомнянето, Моли!

    Дафинка Парталска on

  • We always wear ourselves out trying to do it all, achieve everything (and more)—and as if that weren’t enough, do it like the best, setting records that put us above everyone else. It’s been a few years now since that stopped mattering to me, and now I focus more on what made me happy during the day I’ve lived. With Zentangle, I know I have about five project packs to go, but there is never the right moment to do it. Now I am more patient to wait for the right moment to carry on and really enjoy the dance with pens, pencils and tortillions. Thanks for the reminder….

    Os on

  • I love the story of the farmer who had a dozen pigs. Every day at feeding time he would pick up each pig and let it get an apple off the apple tree. The farmer next door said “You could save a lot of time if you just pick the apples yourself and put them in the trough, then call the pigs”. The farmer replied, “Yes, that would save time, but what’s time to a pig?”

    Holly Tashian on

  • Thank you Molly for this whimical and fun reminder of a chilhood classic. The video clip is lovely to watch, particularly when Alice falls down the rabbit hole and is saying goodbye to Dinah, falling into the black abyss…then all of a sudden her dress opens as an umbrella. She knew she would be fine and trusted the process…..as a surrender with complete faith. A wonderful metaphor!

    Karen Page on

  • So beautifully expressed, Molly! I’m wondering if it would be a bit of a contradiction, to just intentionally SCHEDULE an actual time for your practice. Perhaps not a specific hour, but something to be done purposefully, “built into” your everyday. THAT is where I’m faltering lately. As we begin a new year, and new planners arrive, I want to focus on exactly that. Thank you for sharing!

    Tracy B. on

  • I love Clara Ann Bunk’s remark “ Tangling is therapy, it shuts my mind’s door”. It does help the world to go away and just concentrate on ONE STROKE AT A TIME. ❤️

    Bobbye on

  • I like the Zentangle idea – take as much time or as little time as you like to tangle, there is no deadline, no time watch.
    Just do it freely, enjoy the moment.

    Maria Cheng on

  • Tangling is my therapy. It shuts my mind’s door.

    Clara Ann Brunk on

  • Thank you for the wise reminder! It’s easy to get caught up in the chaos. There’s nothing better than a calm, focused, beautiful Zentangle moment, no matter how long or short it is!

    Stacey Gray on

  • Going down the rabbit hole… so to speak ;-)

    Love, love, love this post, Molly. As always you articulate important values beautifully.

    Molly Siddoway King, CZT36 on

  • Thank you for this insightful post, Molly! One year I decided to do the “12 Days of Zentangle” series as a “12 Months of Zentangle” series, completing one each month the following year. Instead of feeling rushed to complete all twelve during an already busy time of year, I looked forward to completing a new tile as each month unfolded.

    Tina on

  • I’m always so appreciative of the Project Packs and of the encouragement to do them in our own way and at our own pace. I love watching them and tangling along because I really enjoy the teaching style of each person. I feel like I can relax and be a learner as I listen and tangle. I also like the encouragement to use whatever materials we have because that’s how I started learning about Zentangle and how to do it – by tangling with the Project Packs. I purchase them now, but was so happy to tag along and just learn with what I had in the beginning as a way of being introduced to the Zentangle method. So thanks for that!

    Dione Greenberg CZT42 on

  • Soooo delightfully written…..I felt taken by the hand on a little walk with you……Thank you so much, Molly, for sharing this lovely story…..and again you all will pour your heart and soul into the the next Project Pack…….

    Karin Schmid on

  • Now I‘m very curious what the next Project Pack, The 12 days of Zentangle will be. I love that time of the year when the tangling of the 12 Days lighten my December evenings along with the candels of Advent.

    I‘m looking foreward in exitement .

    Martina Fegeler , Germany , on

  • WoW! What a wonderful blog post Molly! I was also an Alice aficianado (still am)! And, as you can see, I’m quite late reading this, but I guess that’s an apt illustration of the point you are making! I’m also behind in watching the PP22 videos as well, (haven’t even started tangling along yet). I’ve found, over the 5 years I’ve been watching project packs, that I prefer to watch each video, enjoying all the banter, tips, techniques, philosophy, and camaraderie that all you HQ experts share with us, before starting my own tangles. While watching, I think about each stroke, what colors I might use, and how I might shade, highlight, or embellish my own versions. Sometimes I watch them two or three times before putting pen to paper. Thanks for validating my procrastination…it’s a lifelong habit, I’m afraid!

    Oh, goodness, gracious! Look at the time! 🐰♥️♠️♦️♣️

    Jessica L Dykes on

  • I absolutely love Alice and her adventures in Wonderland, and I remember as a child, being quite annoyed with the White Rabbit and his incessant scurrying. I totally agree with your sentiments, but it’s interesting as this project pack is one of the few where I’m actually keeping up with each day, partly because I’m in-between jobs so I have the spare time. I have never had an issue with trying to keep up previously because I’ve bought project packs well after the videos dropped, so have loved tangling at my own pace. I find it so very relaxing, creative and transformative. The tools are just beautiful, and I think that’s the other reason I’m loving keeping up, because I can’t wait to see how these beautiful colours come together on paper each day.

    Carolina Peters on

  • Thank you so much, Molly. I will put away the clock when I tangle, and enjoy as much as I can.

    Maria Cheng on

  • Always insightful thoughts!

    Linda on

  • Curiouser and curiouser! I always thought of curiosity as brain fertilizer. Thank you for this thoughtful post.

    Jackie on

  • Molly, thanks for the introduction to the new project.
    I love children’s books!
    There is a lot of life wisdom in them!
    The book “Alice in Wonderland” has a complex plot.
    It requires foresight and the appropriate time!
    How well said, Molly!
    And I like to work on my own clock and at my own pace!
    To fill myself to the brim with the charm of what the zentangle method gives me!
    So the magic unfolds before me in small, small steps!
    I follow them too…
    Thanks!

    Dafi on

  • Thank you so much for the insightful and beautiful blog post. I had not read or watched Alice in Wonderland for years and actually ordered the book today, watched the movie and read your links. So much to learn from it. I just ordered my PP#22 today (a bit behind….but not late!) and watched the first day,..,.I am so excited to start this Wonderland journey this month and so thankful for your encouragement.

    Pattie Grove CZT 36

    Pattie Grove on

  • Thank you for that reminder, Molly, of not having to do every tile on the day the video is posted. It has always stressed me to have to follow, to see people posting their finished tiles quickly…It’s something that I keep working on although I have learnt to disconnect and do it once the project is finished.
    Beautiful post, by the way. I read Alice in Wonderland when I was younger several times and then forgot completely about it until 3 years ago, when I decided to read it again. Same book, different perspectives (child-adult). Thanks for explaining the symbolism! Big hug!

    Alma on

  • What an interesting post! I haven’t seen Alice in Wonderland for years. I never thought about the symbolism. Thank you for pointing it out! I do have a struggle with rushing through projects and not wanting to tackle projects that take a while to complete. . .. Although right now I am working on an intricate cross stitch design for a Christmas stocking for my grandson. I started it 4 years ago, life intervened, and I put it away. I got back to it last week and have been making progress again… I will try to keep this in mind as I work at whatever artistic adventure I am facing. Art takes time, and it is time well spent! Looking forward to PP22!!! Happy Holidays!

    LLS on

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