Maria writes:
I love the idea of Thanksgiving. For me, it’s a day of gratitude . . . even without the grand meal we traditionally serve. I googled if (and what other) countries celebrate gratitude, and (who knew?) there are 22 countries that celebrate some sort of thankfulness in different ways. In most countries, it is about gratitude for a bountiful harvest, in others, gratitude for workers. It feels so good knowing how many other countries set aside a day for gratitude.
But, what if we took gratitude to a whole new level? Imagine, if you will, allowing yourself to be grateful for the (some might say) silliest of things.
Let’s be grateful for the dirty dishes after the great big dinner. What? Well, you could only have dirty dishes if you had food to eat off them, right? And while we’re at it, let us be thankful for the water pouring out of a very handy faucet. Thankful for the clean water. Thankful for the clean hot water. And thankful for those lovely towels, so plentiful, and soft. For the dishes themselves, some of them maybe that we use just for this holiday.
We all take for granted these everyday things. The soap, especially made for the dishes. The camaraderie that goes along with washing up after the meal. The opportunity to involve the children in this most important part of the celebration.
This is getting really exciting! I love that there can be all these countless, tiny gratefuls that can fill our hearts in any one situation. Even if it sounds silly at the moment, imagine being without any one of the above mentioned gratitudes: No water? No towels? No dishes? What would we do? All these things we don’t even think twice about . . . until they’re not there.
If Zentangle has taught me anything, it’s the gratitude and appreciation of the little things: the paper, the pencil, the pen . . . and the Zen. And, then, how the gratitudes somehow sneak their way into our everyday lives, making us feel so lucky to be who we are and to have what we have.
What tiny little thing are you thankful for?
I’d love to hear what you discover.
Illustration from "The Book of Zentangle." Gouache on Arches watercolor paper.
I was separated from family on Thursday, but full of Gratitude…for the can of soup in the cupboard, the pot and the stove to warm it, and the roof over my head! I have a backyard full of leaves, and 2 delightful dog friends to share it with! I am blessed indeed!
I realize this morning that the lady I crossed paths with yesterday, (learning that she is at the beginning of her Care Giving journey for her Mom with a new dementia diagnosis), is someone I can introduce to the Zentangle method as a source of joy and refreshment as she travels this new path. Zentangle has been a respite for me as I travel this tricky path with my Mom—learning that I must practice good self care in the midst of the madness…and orbs and mookas are good for my soul! Thank you Zentangle family!
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I am grateful for all the friends who are around me now and has provided the love that I would have never imagine getting. They turn me into who I am now and I am forever grateful to call them my family.
Jacqueline Lee CZT 36 on
Thanks for the question, Maria!
This year has been a tough one for our family! My good husband Bobby has passed away. We shared nearly 50 years with him. He was the most loving man on earth, devoted to his family!
It’s hard to part with a loved one!
I thank God for giving me the opportunity to live these years with such a person who did not bow to any difficulty in life! Ah, you know that life is not easy!
Thank you for the memories you created and the faith you gave us!
Let’s not give up!
His last words were: – “Love and tolerance!” Love and forgive each other!
Thank you, thank you, thank you for the love, for the faith, for the humanity, for everything!
People, love each other and forgive your mistakes, because tomorrow can be different!Thanks for the question, Maria!
This year has been a tough one for our family! My good husband Bobby has passed away. We shared nearly 50 years with him. He was the most loving man on earth, devoted to his family!
It’s hard to part with a loved one!
I thank God for giving me the opportunity to live these years with such a person who did not bow to any difficulty in life! Ah, you know that life is not easy!
Thank you for the memories you created and the faith you gave us!
Let’s not give up!
His last words were: – “Love and tolerance!” Love and forgive each other!
Thank you, thank you, thank you for the love, for the faith, for the humanity, for everything!
People, love each other and forgive your mistakes, because tomorrow can be different!
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Thanks for the question, Maria!
This year has been a tough one for our family! My good husband Bobby has passed away. We shared nearly 50 years with him. He was the most loving man on earth, devoted to his family!
It’s hard to part with a loved one!
I thank God for giving me the opportunity to live these years with such a person who did not bow to any difficulty in life! Ah, you know that life is not easy!
Thank you for the memories you created and the faith you gave us!
Let’s not give up!
His last words were: – “Love and tolerance!” Love and forgive each other!
Thank you, thank you, thank you for the love, for the faith, for the humanity, for everything!
People, love each other and forgive your mistakes, because tomorrow can be different!
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I’m grateful that the sky above me is blue, and the air is clear. I’m grateful that I can still walk, see, draw. I’m grateful for heat in winter and coolness in summer. I’m grateful for wonderful relationships with my children, sons-in-law, and grandchildren. Oh so much! I’d better stop.
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I am grateful for family living nearby. I am thankful for the Coastal Redwoods nearby… my favorite tree. I am thankful for Zentangle and look forward to learning more each week and teaching it to others. And, “I give thanks for unknown blessings already on their way.” (https://youtu.be/2a9Lam0rsnE?si=ejYVj8fW4L6WUvF0&t=10)
Thanksgiving can be celebrated in many ways, every day. Thank YOU!!
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Lisa Andersin on
At every Thanksgiving dinner, as we enjoy our lovely hot food, I ask those at the table to share with everyone just what they’re grateful for. Many years ago, when my now 21-year-old grandson was about 8, I asked him to go first. Without any hesitation, he announced he was grateful for electricity. We all stopped chewing and looked at him with amusement! He went on to explain ALL the things we rely on electricity for … and I was just so proud of him! :) Didn’t expect that from one so young.
I am grateful for that child as well as the other 3 who call me Gram. They make me feel young and loved and important. I’m a very lucky woman. <3
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Nancy Needler on
in the Boston Globe during the mid 60’s.
“Thank God for dirty dishes,
they have a tale to tell;
while many folk go hungry,
we’re eating very well.
With home and health and happiness,
I shouldn’t want to fuss,
for by this stack of evidence
the Lord’s been good to us
I pinned this near my kitchen sink for years,..
always grateful for each meal.
HAPPY THANKSGIVING! ❤
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Appreciate life and see the patterns in the world around us so we can occasionally escape into the world of Zen, breath and take life #OneStrokeAtATime
Josephine Wood CZT 36 on
Aside from that, your dirty dishes comment reminds me of a poem I memorized and recited in school. We didn’t have books of poetry in the house and this was before the Internet was a household tool so when I was tasked with learning and reciting a poem I was stuck. Then I looked at the decorative cutting boards on the kitchen wall. One said “Thank God for dirty dishes for they’ve a tale to tell. While others may go hungry we’re still eating well. With health and home and happiness we surely shouldn’t fuss. For by this stack of evidence God’s been good to us.” It’s close to sixty years now and I still remember that poem.
Happy day of gratitude!
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MaryAnn Scheblein-Dawson on
Wow. So many mornings I wake up grateful that I’ve been given another day, another season, another birthday.
I’ve seen 68 autumns and survived a pandemic. I have nothing to complain about and everything to be thankful
for.
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Hi All, Thank you Maria,
I am grateful for the little ordinary things you listed. I am 84 years old and well I want to say I am not pitiful in any way, but. I live alone and don’t see many people. I love Zentangle, and I also love the videos! I am learning and I get to hear little conversations about what is happening or a story, it is all just great. Thank you, grace
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